Would you date someone you weren't attracted to if they had an amazing personality?
Like literally everything you want in a person, minus the looks.
GreenieHel · 41-45, F
I had a friend who was completely in love with me and yes he was everything I wanted but I wasn't physically attracted to him. I was young, naive and self centered then but I guess many of us are when we're young. I wish I could go back in time and love him then so I would have him to love now.
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GreenieHel · 41-45, F
Lolco · 36-40, M
@GreenieHel: do you guys still keep in touch?
GreenieHel · 41-45, F
Sometimes. I was busy chasing someone else the whole time he was chasing me. He finally met someone and married. So when I had separated from my ex he was married. A week after I married my husband he told me he was getting a divorce. Go figure, talk about timing. He's now dating a wonderful person. Really, they compliment each other. I'm truly happy for him but I'll always be a bit broken hearted.
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Yes and no. I do have my limits. I couldn't date someone whose appearance is indicative of their personality in a bad way. For example, someone who is 300+ pounds. I believe there's something negative to be said about the personality of people who don't take decent care of themselves. Other than that? Sure. Appearance doesn't mean much.
Lolco · 36-40, M
Is this really true?? There's like no way..
Yes. The only way my boner dies is by personality.
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AdamSensation · 41-45, M
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Is that your photo in the avatar ? 🤔
SW-User
Yes
plaguewatcher · M
yes, most def.
character is key
character is key
popmol · 26-30, M
yezs
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Yeah. Personality gets you bonded. Like if I am attractive and we became friends. But slowly you found I am ugly from inside then looks will nit matter and you will dislike me.
JQuest7575 · 41-45, M
Been there, done that, was a great relationship while it lasted. Sex was great too.