I have a major request

Guys please don't ask me about my relationship status even if I am united states citizen I am a first generation Indian.
And Indians regardless of religion have an arranged marriage. This is how it works. When young adults are ready they put their profile on an Indian wedding website and if they like the other then theirs a blind date then engagement followed by marriage It really just makes me sad having to tell people

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Serenitree · F

Is this arrangement satisfactory to you? Or does it bother you at all? I've often been curious about how people feel about the arranged marriage custom.

lizzy96 · 26-30, F

@Serenitree My parents know I'm not ready and yes I have to satisfied with the guy if I want to be married. They just married my 28 year old brother there not going to rush me

Serenitree · F

@lizzy96 Are you happy with the custom?

lizzy96 · 26-30, F

no, I hate it. 90 % of my dreams are about me having a boyfriend

Serenitree · F

@lizzy96 I'm sorry. It must be frustrating.

Thank you for being patient and answering my questions.

lizzy96 · 26-30, F

your welcome and hey the more you know the better

Serenitree · F

@lizzy96 I agree, but it's not easy to ask those questions of people who haven't been the ones to introduce the topic. If you hadn't mentioned it, I wouldn't have broached the subject because I don't know how people feel about their customs being questioned. Some might think questions are judgements. So, I err on the side of courtesy.

Spoiledbrat · F

Or just personal. That’s why I wouldn’t ask. @Serenitree