Why don't some people believe in "leagues" when it comes to dating?

There have always been leagues whether you want to believe it or not. Anyone who disagrees is delusional and lives in a fantasy world. The only time a 1 has a chance with a 10 is if they have a lot of money, status, and power. Everyone should know where they fall and stick around there. No wonder people want to kill themselves or get depressed because they were rejected. That's what happenes when you go beyond your meager means. I know I don't have a chance with anyone who is a 10 so I don't bother. It's not like I have a big house, fancy car or anything like that to help me either.

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SW-User

I fell in love with someone I'd never naturally go for on EP. I don't really go for business men with desk jobs, wearing suits. It's not me. I like rough around the edges, some stubble, tats and tattered jeans. By knowing his personality and humor well before a picture came, I was in deep and it didn't matter one bit about all that lame stuff. He didn't care I was a simple, country girl with an old school soul, who loves brightly colored hair, who was not putting on heels and dressing up either. I've found myself attracted on here too, to someone I wouldn't search for but they alone, were adorable,all of them by chemistry alone. That is the beauty in meeting online first for me.

TheSacredOne · 36-40, M

@SW-User Of course it helps when you speak to someone online first without seeing how they look. You fall in love with the person instead of the looks. In real life though it's not that simple