Why don't some people believe in "leagues" when it comes to dating?

There have always been leagues whether you want to believe it or not. Anyone who disagrees is delusional and lives in a fantasy world. The only time a 1 has a chance with a 10 is if they have a lot of money, status, and power. Everyone should know where they fall and stick around there. No wonder people want to kill themselves or get depressed because they were rejected. That's what happenes when you go beyond your meager means. I know I don't have a chance with anyone who is a 10 so I don't bother. It's not like I have a big house, fancy car or anything like that to help me either.

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TonyPajamas · 22-25

But I honestly don’t know what my league is lol that’s why I always ignore the people I’m attracted to and act like they don’t exist 😂

TheSacredOne · 36-40, M

@TonyPajamas A good way to find out is by going on tinder honestly. See who tends to match with you the most. If you keep swiping on all the 7+s and none of them match back with you but you keep matching with the 4-6's that's probably where you fall.

TonyPajamas · 22-25

@TheSacredOne my gf would kill me if I go on tinder lol she already thinks I cheat with everyone and their mother. Maybe I might run that experiment if I’m ever single again.

TheSacredOne · 36-40, M

@TonyPajamas Well you don't have to tell her you are on there. Just keep it for a day to see where you fall and then delete it.