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Xuan12 · 36-40, M
Well, 90% of the female activity on dating sites appears to be done by robots or scammers trying to dupe men.
Among the women who appear to be genuine, I've all but stopped bothering to be honest. If they are too attractive, I write it off as hopeless. If I'm not attracted to them, it also wouldn't be fair to go into it. Then there are the many who simply don't share any interests or ideas at all, and I don't know how to approach someone when we missed each other on basically every beat. And then there are those who have almost no profile data, so that's a no go. Among those left who seem approachable to me, they never answer.
Among the women who appear to be genuine, I've all but stopped bothering to be honest. If they are too attractive, I write it off as hopeless. If I'm not attracted to them, it also wouldn't be fair to go into it. Then there are the many who simply don't share any interests or ideas at all, and I don't know how to approach someone when we missed each other on basically every beat. And then there are those who have almost no profile data, so that's a no go. Among those left who seem approachable to me, they never answer.