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Am I in the wrong?

A good friend of mine has developed a crush. All she ever does is talk about him. She acts different when he's around (not in a good way). So this has been going on for months. So just today, she tells me she has a date with him. I told her "good for you" (not sarcastically or anything). And she said "oh I thought you'd be happier", and stormed off. It's not the fact that I'm not happy for her, I've just grown tired of her constantly talking about him.
Jzzmine · 26-30, F
I wont say that you are wrong, tbh it happens to me too....I get really annoyed when my friends get like that....but try to think it from her perspective, it's new and exciting for her, she isn't seeing anything other thn that....and she's used to sharing every thought with you that's y she talks to u about him probably ALL the time and that's y she couldnt understand ur reaction.
It sounds like you do have serious doubts about whether he's good for her... and maybe that came across in your tone. I don't think you are in the wrong though. From your description, you're somewhat worried for your friend and that might be for good reason.
JTMarcus · 36-40, M
No, not wrong. I got friend who done that shit 2 me. Put hos b4 bros. No one worth giving up ur good friends 4. She gone regret when u move along 2 new friend. Like my friend, no talking 2 her now. She made clear she put bf 1st.
SW-User
You aren't wrong. The subject just isn't as interesting to you as it is to her and that's just how friends get when they start dating (god forbid they talk about anything else. 🙄)
SW-User
Cut her off. If only you and her are going to about her crush. Then you might not be able to enjoy your friendship for a long time.
You are not wrong.
I would say you are a champion for putting up with that for months and more.
Just wait for the break up, stay strong
SW-User
Nah. Some people just want to Ben the center of attention.
You're not 'in the wrong'. You gave her some nice words...
she's in love, its whats constantly on her mind.
ProfessionalHauler · 22-25, M
Women are weird

 
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