Someone from a dating site messaged me on Facebook.

...I don't know how to respond to be honest, searching me up and messaging me on facebook is a little bit creepy, but OKCupid's messaging system has been fucked up recently so I guess I sorta understand why he'd message me somewhere else... Still.

I just don't know whether or not to be nice when responding yet. 🤔

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MovieMusicGal · 36-40, F

Don't respond. Find him on okcupid.com and send him a message there. Be like "oh hi. You were one of my top interests (or whatever they use) and strike a conversation there. If things are going well, then give him ur fb and if he says he already sent u a message there, be like" oh that was you?? No way. How did that happen?"
He will then proceed to explain everything. And that's when u decide whether to continue talking to him or not