If your relationship partner forgot the following?

My present gf forgot me last xmas,she also will book family dinners forgetting I'm allergic to tomatoes and make spaghetti.She also brought up in a conversation once that she doesn't want to start over on the open market having to sleep with guys on the 3/4th date (so meaning she actually thought about this)?
I kinda feel alone with her ,no real hugging or kissing she's just not the type .Its almost like I'm a good enough compromise....if that makes sense? Anyone else have or had issues like this?