Tinder girls just want gigachads

I'm starting to think girls on Tinder just want gigachads. I mean, no normal guy (including myself) that I know has gotten any date on there, except for a gigachad I knew once. That guy got laid the same night he met the girl. He just picked her up with his car and there we go, fuck all night. Meanwhile, I had been struggling to chat with a girl for an entire week, trying to get something other than an awkward conversation going. It seems to me you have to be devoid of emotions and internal struggle to get with a girl. They always say that girls want someone who's less stressed out than they themselves are.