Do I really have to look like

No, you don't. Some of us are trying to avoid those types because they come with massive egos. Dating apps are a very shallow pool and most don't even bother with a description of themselves at all.

It's not you, it's how superficial most people are, and you don't want someone like that anyway.

Pretty much that's what women nowadays are looking for washboard ab 2 lb of hair gel and the kind of guy that flexes and makes sizzling noises while he touches himself in the mirror