My work bestie keeps urging me to join a social site for guys who like fat women

Go for it

Yeah.

I prefer curvy over a beanpole.

Never forget, being overweight is a choice. You can change.

But what if you actually are a ten for someone from that site? People like different things

Dating sites are all horrid

You are wrong my friend.
I do prefer women with "curves"
Or should we say, bigger girls.
I'm sure I am not the only one.

You're not being settled for. There are guys out there into voluptuous women. I admit that I've dated a couple and my interest was genuine. I wasn't settling.

It might be hard to do but try not to paint all men with the same brush.

Speaking for myself, I've always preferred plus sized women. I've never seen a bigger woman as a compromise or a step down though. It's just a question of personal taste.

Though with sites like that, you do have to worry about people who treat it like a fetish. That's another big worry, and it's pretty exploitative. Despite it all, there definitely are people who just prefer big girls though. 🤷‍♂

Some of us like curvy women. It’s in my DNA I guess. I have dated all the sizes, just to be fair to everyone. LOL. I always go back to curvy.

I'm afraid those might be a bit fetish prone.
But I hope there are normal there. Fetish prone men are all around anyways

I’ve seen you. I don’t know that you’re fat enough for the niche fetish… maybe stick to average guys who like curvy women?!

There are a lot of guys that genuinely like bigger women. I know some.
Even myself, I'm not attracted to a particular body type, I'm attracted to the person.
Maybe her eyes captivate me.
Maybe her smile melts me.
Maybe she is the sexiest woman in the room.

There is no one-size-fits-all body type.

Guys are visual and are aroused by one or more body types.

Oh and if you look at movies from the 20s-40s - more meat on the bones was a given.