In the Indian culture (people from India) what are their thoughts if an American woman married or dated an Indian guy?

That depends on person to person, but mostly would be Welcoming.

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Of course they do Indian women especially. They want their race and culture intact.

Do they look down upon that? - nope

Maybe boomers and silent generation people. But most people younger than fifty really would not care.