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Tell me something about your culture

Something my parents taught:

In Hinduism, we touch our parents feet before the exam and they bless us. It's a sign of respect we have towards them.

During disagreement, we can have healthy arguments but we are not to raise our voice before our parents.

We remove our shoes before entering someone's house because we believe God resides in there. A shrine / idol etc .

We cannot accidentally throw our books or touch them with our feet because it's a huge disrespect to the Goddess of knowledge.

When we are seated in the bus or train, we get up to give our place to women and men older to us. Same at any que including ATMs

We never criticize food we are served because it's considered disrespectful.

We have to make sure we don't waste the food and if at all anything is untouched we parcel it and give it to the homeless.

We usually don't say NO to our parents when they ask us to do something - like running some errands.

We are not to look down upon people only because they come from a different socio economic class, caste, community, religion or race. Or for that matter profession.

We are supposed to communicate amicably with the poor and homeless who might need our help and help them financially.

We are supposed to welcome the guests and give them the best hospitality and the most important thing is to serve water as soon as they arrive followed by tea and snacks.

There's a lot more.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I don't have a culture.

I dropped the culture that people associated me with in the trash, where it belongs.

The five pillars of that culture are as follows:
1. Lying
2. Hypocrisy
3. Misogyny
4. Racism
5. Ill-will

Lying is the general principle. Family lies to family. Friends lie to friends. Neighbors lie to each other. Strangers lie to one another. Politicians lie to the people. And the government lies to the citizens.

Hypocrisy begins in the family, and extends to every aspect of one's life. Do as I say, not as I do. The people that tout the rules are often the ones breaking them in secret.

Misogyny begins at birth, where preference is given to the male child. Female children are considered as a burden. A couple will procreate as many times as they need to in order to have a son. Even if it means having 20 daughters prior to that son.
That misogyny carries on for the rest of their lives. With the males given priorities over the females.

Racism is inherited through the family lineage. It is taught from the moment the child goes to school. Don't talk to children from other races. Don't eat their food. Don't play with them. Don't bring them home. Look down upon them. Don't fall in love with them. And definitely don't marry them.

Ill-will begins in the family. Relatives who adopt their kin do so to steal their inheritance. Adopted kids are treated like trash. They are starved, mistreated, harrassed, beaten and raised like beasts in a cage.
Life is a competition. Competition begins in the family. With the parents own children given preference over the adopted ones. Competition branches out to the relatives and kin - step brothers and cousins, uncles and aunts, in-laws etc, then to the neighbors, friends, and society.

Decisions are made based on what others will think, given the assumption that the entire culture is sustained by gossiping m0r0ns who've got nothing better to do.

People live to show off to others. Everything they do and accomplish has a single focus - to prove they're better than others. Look at my Harvard degree! Look at my 20-page long resume! Look at my beautiful wife! Look at my smart kids! Look at my Bugatti! Look at my mansion! Look at my swimming pool! Look at the large sum of money I'm donating to the red cross! I've got a gym in my home! Come and look at it! Let me take you on a tour of my crib! Cha ching! Bling bling bling!

Everyone is secretly sad and depressed. Couples quarrel and argue all the time. There is no such thing as love in the family. No trust. No faith. When outside or in front of company, they put on a big smile and happy face. Once they arrive home, it's the same old depressive aura.
The only happiness and enjoyment they get is from ruining other people's day. Or watching others suffer.
Charity truly does begin at home, because if you go on a sleepover or stay at someone's home for more than 2 days, you'll notice they're going through the same problems that you are. It is indeed a widespread phenomenon. But nobody talks about it in public. Everyone suffers in silence, or gossip about others who are going through much worse, or go online to gain the relevancy, attention and admiration they clearly lack in real life.

It's a culture akin to makeup; beautiful on the surface, but when you wash it off, you're left to deal with a harrowing nightmare.
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@rrraksamam it's really saddening to read this 🤗
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Shytoshow · 56-60, M
Native culture is very similar in many ways

 
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