The style of a Catholic wedding in Italy
To have a Roman Catholic wedding in Italy, at least one partner must be Catholic, and neither can be divorced without an annulment, requiring extensive paperwork from your home parish. You can arrange for a legally binding "concordatario" ceremony with a civil component or a non-legally binding religious blessing. The process involves significant lead time, typically 6-9 months, to collect documentation and ensure all paperwork reaches the Italian diocese well before the wedding.
Legality and Structure
Legally Binding Options:
You can have a "concordatario" ceremony, which includes a civil element within the Mass, making it legally recognized in Italy. Alternatively, you can perform a civil ceremony in your home country first and then have a symbolic Catholic blessing in Italy.
Restrictions:
A Catholic wedding isn't possible if one or both parties have been previously married in a Catholic ceremony and have not received an official annulment from the Catholic Church.
Mixed-Religion:
Marriages between a Catholic and a non-Catholic are allowed but require written permission from the Catholic Bishop.
Paperwork and Preparation
Home Country Documentation:
You'll need to start the process with your local parish priest in your home country.
Pre-Cana Course:
You must attend and complete a pre-cana course.
Key Documents:
Prepare documents on your local parish's formal letterhead, including the Prenuptial Enquiry Form and a permission letter from your Bishop.
Timing:
Begin the process at least 6-9 months in advance, as the paperwork needs to be completed and submitted to the Italian diocese at least two months before the wedding date.
Ceremony Details
Language: Ceremonies are often performed in Italian, but English-speaking priests can usually be arranged upon request.
Church Donations: A donation to the church is typically required.
Dress Code: The bride and her female guests must adhere to a dress code, which means no bare shoulders are permitted in the church.
Legality and Structure
Legally Binding Options:
You can have a "concordatario" ceremony, which includes a civil element within the Mass, making it legally recognized in Italy. Alternatively, you can perform a civil ceremony in your home country first and then have a symbolic Catholic blessing in Italy.
Restrictions:
A Catholic wedding isn't possible if one or both parties have been previously married in a Catholic ceremony and have not received an official annulment from the Catholic Church.
Mixed-Religion:
Marriages between a Catholic and a non-Catholic are allowed but require written permission from the Catholic Bishop.
Paperwork and Preparation
Home Country Documentation:
You'll need to start the process with your local parish priest in your home country.
Pre-Cana Course:
You must attend and complete a pre-cana course.
Key Documents:
Prepare documents on your local parish's formal letterhead, including the Prenuptial Enquiry Form and a permission letter from your Bishop.
Timing:
Begin the process at least 6-9 months in advance, as the paperwork needs to be completed and submitted to the Italian diocese at least two months before the wedding date.
Ceremony Details
Language: Ceremonies are often performed in Italian, but English-speaking priests can usually be arranged upon request.
Church Donations: A donation to the church is typically required.
Dress Code: The bride and her female guests must adhere to a dress code, which means no bare shoulders are permitted in the church.