my dad was a paranoid parent... and paranoia breeds bad things and bad energy and sometimes even violence...

my dad was born in Australia yet he was born to immigrant parents and those parents of his deeply ingrained into him that he must do everything that they tell him to do without question...
my fathers mum was a very anxious woman and she was in a new country, she made her children anxious about how they were in a new country....
my father believed that you must listen to and obey everything that your parents tell you to do without question...
it made him feel safe to obey his parents in a new country....
Well then he married an Auatralian Woman ....his parents were worried that he married an Aussie Wh*re
He needed to prove to his parents that he married a good woman.....
He was Paranoid, his parents always some story about how his cousins took over the house that they lived in and started to tell the elders what to do.....
This was the biggest SIN according to my grandparents, and they told my dad about this when he was young...
My dad always grew up thinking that we were going to REBEL just like his cousins... we were going to take over the whole house ..... he was a paranoid fool