Oh yeah, God just loves it when man twists that scripture to his satisfaction. After all, man is quite selfish. If you think God insists on our pleasing Him, then you don't know God at all OR your Bible. What arrogance. Your thoughts display nothing but those of a typical narcissist.
You have twisted that scripture to your satisfaction. What will you do with the verse that proves you wrong?
Ephesians 5:25
Listen toEphesians 5:25: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”
See.... When a man loves a woman, he will not wish her to be his slave but will love her as Christ loves the church! This is without demands or selfishness. God didn't not make any human being to be slave to another. You need to get back to Bible study. It's obvious you don't know what love is. Love is not controlling people.
Love is not selfish and it does not demand its own way but is thoughtful and loving in every way. That's in Corinthians. Look it up.