I'm going to go on a tangent now so ignore or whatever

It's effed up how normalized in society these " love languages " are ...it shows you how engrained it is ...this is all started by a pastor who just wasn't getting enough attention from his wife ...
How Christianity as a whole is teaching people not about God's love etc etc ...but how narcissistic people are supposed to be particularly the men ....if they want to be a " good Christian "
My problem isn't with God but with Christianity....there I said it ....block me ...idc ...I'll die on this hill ...