@Unefilletrescurieuse In fact the special version of Jesus presented in the Gospel of John isn't exactly my favorite fictional character. I prefer the other three Jesuses very much, especially the one in the Gospel of Mark.
Are you a Spiritual cul-de-sac who having received God’s blessings, His love, His grace, His truth, then keeps them for yourself. Hoarders of the Gosplel rather than vessels through which God’s work can flow.
In John 3 Gaius models sonething different, he receives and then releases. He welcomes, equips, and then sends people out, supporting them on their journey. We can give our time, our presence, resources, mentoring even to others. This is an outward focus, aware of the needs of others.What God has given you , should flow outwards into the lives of others.