Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

If we love God... John 14:15... but for those trying to do it on their own... https://www.simplybible.com/f096-mustdo-how-god-helps-us.htm

Thanks for the consolation.

According to His plan. His ways are not our ways...