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"Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words

by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight."
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i thought this was a joke at first. this never works. in fact, most husbands never come to this place and abuse tf out of their wives while she stays with him being the good savior wife. i have seen this with my own eyes. so go preach this to your church girls. (:
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy It is Gods word!
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@deathfairy Actually it works much much better than any alternative.
kinda makes it bs when “gods word” forces women to be stay with men just to get abused, raped, and even murdered by their own husbands because they are forced to stick with them and can’t ever leave because they will be “condemned to hell for all of eternity” simply because some old farts decided to sit down and write some stupid ass collection of books because they wanted to control and strike fear into ppl not to question that control. @Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy Fighting doesn't work!
well hello there hippy earring boy!! does it work best? how? listen, when a woman feels safe and loved with a man, she will fall into his views and agree with him as he should agree with her. the Bible is very male oriented and misogynistic. don’t tell me what works and doesn’t, i have grown up on this cult of Christianity and have seen many families suffering due to the Bible and mindless unquestionable blind faith everyone is taught. @hippyjoe1955
neither does quoting the Bible for others to be preached at when they have their own choice to make..? not to mention teaching and dictating women how to behave. that’s literally like teaching women not to get raped when it’s the men that should be taught not to rape. @Carazaa
also the main point i am trying to make is, this gives men all of the power in a family dynamic instead of encouraging them to be equals and be able to influence each other. PLUS, this passage in particular literally makes it sound like women should neglect themselves and silently serve their “husband” without ever doing anything to take care of themselves in hopes of him seeing how selfless she is and come to god. like you can’t make someone love you more than they already do. it doesn’t work that way. @Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy I have posted many verses for men too. Men are to serve their wives as Jesus serves the church, his bride. He washed the disciples feet.

Jewish men often bow to their wives and pray to God before they eat. One Jewish friend of mine said her husband would get down on his knee every day before dinner and thank God for his wife infront of his kids.

This post is for women. I am not against separation or counseling, I am for Gods word, and God is teaching us every day how to behave.
i am very happy to hear you’re pushing your bible verses onto both men and women here!!. since you diverted to this topic, i will as well and ask, have you ever achieved what you are hoping to on here? to bring others to god? if you are only preaching to your Christian pals, why bother even doing it if you guys already know it all and follow each and every rule the Bible dictates you to? @Carazaa
and don’t drag Jewish people into this. we are talking about Christianity in the USA, where people who ate Jewish read and follow gods law. Jewish people have an amazing understanding of life and their belief systems. the branches of Christianity here in the USA have a lot to learn from them. @Carazaa
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@deathfairy so about the friends of mine that call themselves completed Jews.
as in converted to the Jewish way of life? or just the religious part of it? @hippyjoe1955
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy People ask me to pray for them, here yes. Many men write me that they have sex addictions and can I pray for them, or ask me for advice with their wives, or families, both Christians and non christians. many Christians don't read the Bibles daily, and appreciate the Bible verses I post.

God has commanded us to witness the hope in us so that is what I do. On my 5th post I wrote how God has helped me personally miraculously.
men, men, men. what’s new.

if they don’t read the Bible daily, are they even real Christians?

they are just backpacking off your faith and knowledge to hopefully rescue themselves. hey, remember that proverb about the women who had the lamps filled with oil that were waiting for the groom to come but fell asleep? and some ran out of the lamp oil once he finally came? were the ones that went into town to buy more oil and came back only to have the door closed on their faces? were they let into the wedding? no. that’s those that are backpacking off you. you can’t make ppl read and learn what they don’t want to. so my point is. you’re not rly doing much.

@Carazaa
by the way, you completely glazed over my second reply to you when i spoke about Christian women getting abused by their husbands but stay with them because they have to stay with them and show them infinite love. all you said was “fighting doesn’t work!!” neither does what your post says.

this is how all Christians do it. she is getting abused? “God has a plan, we don’t know his ways!!!!” “it’s all in gods hands!” “we shouldn’t fight because it doesn’t work!!” “let’s ignore what is actually happening and pray to a wall and hope for the best that they work it out!!!” @Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy I am answering everyones questions not just yours so patience patience. I'll get to your questions in a while. I have many who are writing me! 🙂
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy
The parable about the lamp oil is about Jesus coming and we have to be ready and looking and not fall asleep.

Try not to be so afraid of men. be more afraid of God. He can answer our prayers or he can ignore your prayers.
did i leave something out about not making it clear that the parable is about Jesus and “Christian people”??
i was also including you as part of it. you are the one who has oil, while the others that “don’t read the Bible daily asking you to pray for them” are the ones who fell asleep and had to go down to town to get more oil but were too late. they are the ones backpacking off your faith and knowledge. obviously idk you so you may very well be among the ones who will have an empty lamp also. but that’s beside the point. i was using that as the most simple example for us both to see what you are trying to do here.

i am afraid of CHRISTIAN men because they feel entitled to do and behave however they like because of the pedestal PPL LIKE YOU PUT THEM ON!!

also, lmfao, sounds like a really judgmental, moody and picky god to choose what prayers to answer. let me guess? he knows what’s best for us and chooses which prayers he decides to answer? you actually are god who creates and answers your own prayers.
@Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy
Don't be afraid of anyone, not of men, christian or ungodly, just fear The God who will judge you when Jesus comes.
we all fear what traumas we have experienced, i admit what i am afraid of, nothing wrong with that. don’t tell me what to be afraid of. god isn’t supposed to be feared. he is supposed to be loved and accepted. purely and with joy, you don’t accomplish anything by telling me to fear him and fall on my knees like some kind of dirty disgusting creature before him so i won’t be judged. you aren’t even listening to what i am actually saying. you’re grasping onto and responding to whatever is the easiest and simplest part of what i say is and don’t even try to answer the rest of what i actually am trying to talk about. typical Christian behavior. well, good luck to you and your praying and responding to the many manyy manyyyy people that are writing you. amen and praise the lord!! i can’t wait to see how many “Christian’s” will be joining us damned folks in a supposed “hell”!!

by the way??? you create what you fear the most. it sticks to us like glue. you believe in a hell, it is real, real to you, and only you. simple.
@Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy



[b"]Love casts out fear". [/b]

God wants us humble!

I don't fear hell, I just want to be pleasing to God since he loves us so much he shed his blood for us. I look forward to heaven. I admit many say they are Christians but they do it for political reasons etc.

Eye has not seen, ear has not heard, monds have not imagined what God has prepared for those who love him" 1 Cor 2:9


I hope you have no more fear or traumas in your life, I really do 🌷
how did this turn on me and what i fear? girl. bye. i was talking about the main topic of your original post the ENTIRE time and you decide to latch onto what i mention about myself once and keep talking about that, quoting Bible verses at me doesn’t change the fact that Christianity gives men all of the power (let’s remember that this was my original topic, okay? i don’t want to lose you again] you haven’t replied to any of what i said, only about my fears? i don’t care about heaven or hell, it is a STATE OF MIND. fears and trauma are literally normal happenings in life yo, but you wouldn’t know because you are on some high horse acting like you are saving all of sw with your little quotes and prayers.

and by the way, you DO fear hell. OR ELSE YOU WOULD NOT BE A BIBLE THUMPING CHRISTIAN. @Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy
God has the power! God lives in me. The Holy Spirit is in me. God answer my prayers because I humble myself and become his instrument to be his servant and then he helps me and puts me on top.

I have been in an abusive marriage, God has humbled me so I can help others. I have my own business, have been the CEO of men, I have men renting from me. I have my own house , paid off my car, my bills, and have learned a thing or two, But best of all is Gods promise of heaven!

I want that for you too!🌷
i don’t care about your life, i literally didn’t even ask you anything about you because this is not even about you!!! wtf @Carazaa
Carazaa · F
@deathfairy I am posting verses to wives because I want to help them. I am sharing my life as a Godly woman. This is my post to Godly women, what are you doing on my post critisizing everything? Please...