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this is serious but not to serious..I wear glasses. about a year ago I didn’t have my glasses due to them being broke and about late last month my mom finally got me a new pair of glasses and I loved those glasses I was so happy to get them..one day I went to my friends house, i got tired and I took a nap, before I took a nap i took my glasses off and layed them on her bed and went to sleep. I woke up and they disappeared, it hurt me so much I almost cried because I actually did love those glasses I got attached to them. I looked everywhere trust me, we searched her room and it’s nowhere to be seen at all. my mom, isn’t good with understanding me and she put me thru a lot of trauma on me to where i’m not comfortable with freely telling her that I sadly lost my glasses, she’s noticed but i keep making up excuses on what to say but i know it won’t last long..she’s going to eventually want to see them and I don’t know what to say or do. i just been hoping that my glasses could appear one day but there still no sign..the only plan I had was to wait until I get my own money and tell her about my glasses and give her the money myself. if I had those glasses trust me I would wear them everyday, they was brand new and i was so upset. I just don’t know what to do anymore, i’m supposed to get my state ID tomorrow and I know of course she’s going to once again ask about my glasses but i have no more excuses in me then she gets so angry and that just brings my trauma all the way back up so I have no idea what to do I need help. I’m young by the way
You're 20 or 25 years old, or somewhere between there. Don't allow your mother to traumatize you just because you accidentally lost your glasses. You're not 12 anymore. Stand up to her and tell her the truth. Good grief, people lose things all the time, but it shouldn't be that traumatic. Did you look in all your covers? Shake them out it could still be there and if it's not then it must have fallen down in the platform of the bed and got caught there in some space. But they didn't just disappear into thin air, so they've got to be there somewhere in that bed, under the bed or stuck in the mechanism of the bed. Cool off the mattress if you have to and I bet you'll find them stuck in the frame somewhere, but don't let your mother bully you. I wish you the best in finding them. They didn't walk off by themselves, so they have to be there.
@cherokeepatti what gets me is they only pay pennies for those lens and then charge us a thousand times more. Glasses should not cost near that much. And yes all the extras make the price go up plus the examination
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@LadyGrace yeah I know. I have told people about getting their reading glasses at Dollar Tree. Some of them were paying $20 and misplacing them or whatever. That’s another way to save a little money.
@cherokeepatti well sometimes that works and at the drugstore but when your eyes are really bad it doesn't help
Stuffy · 61-69, F
Keep looking for then until you find them. They are there
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Stuffy Unless someone else came into the house and took them they should be there.

 
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