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My boss lies in order to hide her mistakes and blame someone else

Does that count as bullying?
Mindfulness · 51-55, M
It's certainly a lack of accountability and poor leadership.
Mindfulness · 51-55, M
[@1095867,KuroNeko] You're a wonderful person, you deserve all the support.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1225513,Mindfulness] that's very sweet ☺️
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
I don't know if that qualifies as bullying but certainly: manipulation, deceit and cowardice.

Cover your butt my friend. Don't trust her. 😊
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1224624,dontbekoi] perhaps the fact that shes now attempting to convince the others that I am making the mistakes and therefore they are having to work harder to make up for my shortcomings.

She gets worse every day.
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
[@1095867,KuroNeko] What a horrible person 😠
Rooster · M
In a way, I suppose it is. Bullies come in all forms so that might just be her way of covering her ass.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@527571,Rooster] shes currently trying to convince the others in my workplace that I'm slacking and they have to make up for it. They think shes crazy.
Rooster · M
[@1095867,KuroNeko] I can see why!!!! Always somebody else to blame for their own ineptness.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@527571,Rooster] shes so bad at it that everyone can see. It's kinda sad to watch.
My husbands boss does this too, then she has to control everything to make sure she covers her tracks

Yesterday she told him she's "in charge of the globe"
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1224465,AthenaArena] just narcissistic things 😅
Doometernal · 22-25, M
Could be a narcissist or a sociopath.
No but it does show what an utter numpty you have to be careful of.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@509821,MadchesterMan] I'm leaving soon so I'm kind of untouchable rn. I have compiled a list of crap shes done and will be putting in a formal complaint.
[@1095867,KuroNeko] leaving sounds like a wise choice. I've nearly been sacked twice after putting in notice so just be careful because it's amazing what hurdles can be put in your way. A formal complaint sounds ok, although it would be good if more than you could do it at the same time.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@509821,MadchesterMan] my next job is secured and I have plenty of witnesses to her behaviour. 👍 Thanks for the advice 🤗
antonioioio · 61-69, M
Bide your time and you will eventually get to hang her out to dry
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1239145,antonioioio] I'm leaving in a few weeks, but shes started a bunch of shit about me to take the focus off herself. I'm not about to let her get away with it.
RoxClymer · 36-40, M
I don't know about bullying but
it sure smells like bullshit
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
That's integrity! A great leadership skill.
TheConstantGardener · 56-60, M
It counts as lying. Unethical behaviour.
PatheticZombieClown · 46-50, M
Counts as unethical behavior.
babieseatcrap · 41-45, M
I know if you have her number and she has boyfriend or husband send sexy messages like you see on similar worlds and make him think she is cheating
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1237702,babieseatcrap] I'm pretty sure any relationship she has is doomed already.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
[@1111697,Xsome1x] just wondering how to word it in my formal complaint.

 
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