It's hard to say. They're both *very* good actors. So there's that.
Next, you have heard on tape saying "I hit you Johnny. I didn't effing deck you, I hit you." So there's *audio* proof her telling him, she hit him. So there's that.
Is there audio proof of him doing things to her physically unwanted? I don't know.
I think they both abused each other honestly. And on the stand, they better have brushed up on their acting abilities.
If it would have been me in his position, I wouldn't have run to a closet or bathroom, I would have grabbed my stuff, and left. Then I would have come to the realization that this type of relationship just won't work out, and it's time to end it. But he stuck around. And again, when she was done yelling at him, did he turn to alcohol/drugs and then yell and physically hurt her?
Those are things I don't know because I've only been watching clips on Youtube, and when I see the thumbnails of her face, it just comes off as fake.
My final answer Regis, is this: B) She was the initiator, and egged Johnny on, Johnny may have gone after her, but without seeing all of the coverage, I can't give a true answer on that aspect.
@twiigss he was also telling her that he hated her and early on in the marriage. Why the hell didn’t they divorce early on instead of dragging it out until now?