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My Husband is getting an LOR!

Captain Williams and Captain Arnold are officially giving my husband Paul an LOR for not following tech data! I met both of them on base today and they let me see it! I was impressed 😝. They are both taking me out to lunch today with Major Collins. Time to celebrate ya'll!!!
SW-User
A Letter of Reprimand is a personnel document. So they did indeed break rules. Your husband should report your Captains to the Staff Judge Advocates office. Between them and your Major and the goings on between you, they could get booted from the US Air Force. Their actions fall under the Unbecoming of an Officer umbrella if nothing else.
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TexChik · F
So ... Military officers take a civilian and estranged spouse of your active duty husband on base and then show you his military record and his shiny new Letter of Reprimand ? In the civilian world , that would be illegal. Pretty sure it is in the military too.
TexChik · F
@SarahMilso Oh please! Telling you about it is a serious violation, showing it to you is a criminal act . 🙄
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@TexChik 🙄
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robertsnj · 56-60, M
you are not worried about the LOR? what happens when your husband get the repremand?
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
They are taking you out for lunch but YOU are desert...
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@braveheart21 Mmm yum!!
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
@SarahMilso he he he dirrrrty girl.... Lol love it.. 👍👍
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
What happened?
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
@SarahMilso I guess that’s pretty bad in the military right?
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@Lilred2289 haha it is!!
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
@SarahMilso I’m glad he’s getting what he deserves!
Pretzel · 61-69, M
Revenge is a dish best served cold, am I right?
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@Pretzel Oh yes!!
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔..........I would think that would be against policy to show a LOR to anyone other than who it's for? You must have some pull........lol
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@Jimmy2016 I would anticipate Department of the Air Force Instruction (DAFI) 36-2907 should address who is authorized to see a LOR. My guess is since it is a temporary administrative action that it would be limited to the chain of command of the receiver. I also doubt that a LOR is the initial punishment for failure to follow tech data, unless it resulted in damage to equipment or harmful to AF personnel. That would likely be a Letter of Counseling (LOC). Governed by the same instruction.
@SarahMilso You are a depenta, what do you know about AF policy and procedures?
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@SarahMilso Hey.... You're not coming off as 'real' here. Let it go!!
Have fun but put the "Key Spouse" stuff aside and cut the strings....
Orca4950 · 70-79, M
How are you going to thank them for sharing with you?
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
whether civilian or military, disclosing LOR without consent to a 3rd party is a violation of privacy act. 5 U.S.C. § 552a(b)
disclosing private military records is a violation of UCMJ article 104, with the penalty being up to a dishonorable discharge and three years in prison

bet they won't be laughing if/when they get caught... 🤔
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
That is really bad news for your soon to be ex husband. I'm not a lawyer and I don't know how things work in the military but I think his superiors showing you that LOR is illegal and if it is, I think your husband can hire a lawyer and challenge it in court. At least you are having a blast with the base's leadership team!!! 😉
Sure. I know officers carry LORs around in their pocket to show a spouse. Nice story but never would happen
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@Sojournersoul I saw it.
@SarahMilso Maybe next time they are running a train on you they will show you his article 15.
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
Degbeme · 70-79, M
What is an LOR?
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@Degbeme yes sir!
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@Degbeme Lord of Rings. She's married to a hobbit.
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@hunkalove um No lol!
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Why feel good about that? Has he been abusive to you?
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@StevetheSleeve yes! Verbally abusive to me.
How does him getting a LoR help you?
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@SomeMichGuy I know his leadership and they tell me how much they hate him lol!
@SarahMilso Wow--THAT is NOT good.
SarahMilso · 22-25, F
@SomeMichGuy For him! lol!
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
So what if the base finds out about all of the sex activities in their offices ?

 
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