My Husband is getting an LOR! Captain Williams and Captain Arnold are officially giving my...

A Letter of Reprimand is a personnel document. So they did indeed break rules. Your husband should report your Captains to the Staff Judge Advocates office. Between them and your Major and the goings on between you, they could get booted from the US Air Force. Their actions fall under the Unbecoming of an Officer umbrella if nothing else.

TexChik · F

So ... Military officers take a civilian and estranged spouse of your active duty husband on base and then show you his military record and his shiny new Letter of Reprimand ? In the civilian world , that would be illegal. Pretty sure it is in the military too.

robertsnj · 56-60, M

you are not worried about the LOR? what happens when your husband get the repremand?

braveheart21 · 61-69, M

They are taking you out for lunch but YOU are desert...

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

What happened?

Pretzel · 61-69, M

Revenge is a dish best served cold, am I right?

Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M

🤔..........I would think that would be against policy to show a LOR to anyone other than who it's for? You must have some pull........lol

Orca4950 · 70-79, M

How are you going to thank them for sharing with you?

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

whether civilian or military, disclosing LOR without consent to a 3rd party is a violation of privacy act. 5 U.S.C. § 552a(b)
disclosing private military records is a violation of UCMJ article 104, with the penalty being up to a dishonorable discharge and three years in prison

bet they won't be laughing if/when they get caught... 🤔

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

That is really bad news for your soon to be ex husband. I'm not a lawyer and I don't know how things work in the military but I think his superiors showing you that LOR is illegal and if it is, I think your husband can hire a lawyer and challenge it in court. At least you are having a blast with the base's leadership team!!! 😉