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Escalation at the work place

I have a manager that is laxidasical.
Nice fella, family man, likes to golf, loves his kids and wife, goes to church, volunteers, moral and socially he's a great guy.

He sucks as a manager, the inmates are running the asylum and there's only a few of us that have gotten together and talked about our concerns at loosing our jobs if something doesn't change soon.

Due to my managers negligence, he's lost a few contracts over the past couple of years. Millions of dollars worth of losses. We just lost another one.
Sadly, the reasons for loosing them weren't that our competitors made them an offer they couldn't refuse or had a product that was far superior than ours. It was because they weren't being served.

My manager doesn't like confrontation and despite being a good guy, not great, but good, he goes out of his way to avoid anything that looks like confrontation.
Because of this personality flaw, the other employees do whatever they want without any direction, correction, or consequences.

Myself and my fellow 'sane' employees have talked to him about it in very gentle, guiding tones. It's not clicking for him. He wants to have another meeting to tell the other employees to stop doing what he's allowed them to do. This will be at least the tenth meeting like this in the past few years, so today I have the honor and privilege of sending an email to my managers manager. I'm cc'ing all my fellow co workers who are concerned about the work too so this doesn't have the appearance of a wronged, angry, female employee.

I'm a little apprehensive. When a line is draw and sides are chosen, it will cause ripples. At my age, I'm tired of dealing with ripples but.... I'm a stronger swimmer and love the water.

Have a great day everyone!!
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StraightLacedLADY · 41-45, F
@ManKing Thank you for the feedback. I wrote it to get it outside of my head. As the work day progressed, I realized it would be better just to keep my head down and mouth shut. As much as I want to help, I want a job and the ability to take care of my family more.
My manager is an idiot and he's very good at sewing his lips to the ass of those who could cause him to loose his job so, I'm gonna prepare my life boat right now and then watch the rats drown when the ship sinks.
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If they can him, apply for his job. Management is harder than it looks.
StraightLacedLADY · 41-45, F
@LeopoldBloom I'm starting to figure that out as the branch gets progressively worse. Thankfully, I've found a couple of advocates who are authority figures over me, they work remotely, and look solely at performance. I'm a shinning star for them and as of this month, they're my new managers although I will still work the same manager who's currently running our branch into a black hole, I feel secure in knowing I can stay with the company in some capacity
@StraightLacedLADY Have you discussed your immediate supervisor with them? It would help if you have specific examples prepared, like if you can show them how he lost those contracts or how he lets his subordinates get away with stuff.
StraightLacedLADY · 41-45, F
@LeopoldBloom I have seriously considered it. I've talked to our lead technician about if either of us could do anything and after a few months have passed we've realized, hire-ups don't care because they're to busy dealing with their own agendas.
The company I work for is a great company and I love it, however the old school accountability doesn't factor into anyone's work performance for most of upper management.
For the ones that do appreciate accountability, they don't demote or fire, they just promote over.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
I hope it works out for you guys, that sounds very frustrating
StraightLacedLADY · 41-45, F
@MyNameIsHurl Thank you. It actually got more frustrating. One of my coworkers decided to beat me to the punch and send an email, it got kicked back to the problem manager who was tasked with dealing with an employee just dealing with 'survival mode'.
When I realized how tone deaf our leadership at my company was, despite working very hard to convince us otherwise, I decided they were just like every other employer.
Keep my head down, work impeccable, and mouth shut. That's what I'm doing now.
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bhatjc · 46-50, M
Time for you to get a new Job. Or report to the upper boss.
StraightLacedLADY · 41-45, F
@bhatjc another employee reported to the upper boss and....more or leas brushed it back into the same managers lap.

I do agree its time to get my resume ready just in case.

Thank you for the advise
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@StraightLacedLADY Some times the bosses upstairs are idiots. Always good to look for a new job.

 
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