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Do You Ever Get Kind Of Sad & Nostalgic When A Long-Time Small Locally-Owned Business Closes Up?

I do and more so as I age. The last one is a pet store in Oklahoma City where I bought Kiwi as a mate for my male bird. I was buying bulk seeds for my canaries, some accessories, and the large flight cage for the canaries. I would go in the back room and talk to the African Gray parrot that belonged to the pet store owner. I would always go and watch the parakeets, doves, and finches too. The owner would give me advice if I mentioned a problem, very helpful.

And my favorite local health food store closed up last fall. I had been a customer since the 70’s, it was opened up in 1968 by Mrs. Dodson and her husband. She passed away a few years ago and Mr. Dodson and his grandchildren helped run the store. They had the best customer service of any health food store. When I would come into the store and start browsing around one of the staff, especially Mr. Dodson, would walk up and asked if I needed help finding something. Sometimes he would make suggestions on brands or say that a health professional had put patients on certain items like chlorophyll supplements when I told him I needed iron because I was anemic. He got in bad health and sold everything. Saw him in a local grocery store a week ago.

And this one I know sounds strange. There was a tire shop that repaired flats and would put tires on wheels for customers etc. They also sold new tires but would work with ones you bought elsewhere. Didn’t charge an arm & a leg either, reasonable prices and they were quick. When I was working at the used car lot they got a lot of our business and also fixed my tires when I needed them too. The owner died about a year and a half ango and the new owners hiked up the prices a great deal.
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FreddieUK · 70-79, M
It's not just nostalgic, but as if a part of your life disappears as each part of the community you're a part of closes down.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@FreddieUK Oh yes exactly that. I felt like crying when I drove to the store to buy something and saw that it was closed up with signs on the door. Had been a few weeks before and it was not mentioned. I have a whole lot of wonderful of memories shopping there for 50 years with the same family owning it all that time. My daughter had developed lupus as a teen and had all kinds of symptoms. We would go there and I would be shopping for teas or whatever and she would ask me if she could browse around. Every time she would find something new to try and ask if she could have it and I’d buy it for her. Those things were helping her to heal her symptoms, everything in fact that she bought. I would read books or go to the library for each new thing and read about the benefits and learn how they healed her. The doctors only wanted to write prescriptions for drugs. Diet and even spices like curry and things like green tea were helping her with inflammation etc. I came to the conclusion that we have an inner physician that can help us with healing if we focus on healing. It was strange the way she would pick things out and use them. I do the same thing too, and things that helped me with colon cancer symptoms that my oncologists didn’t even know about.
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
@cherokeepatti This is a great illustration of how local stores are not just about buying stuff, but also relationships and real friendships.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@FreddieUK For most of these businesses the owners are invested in their communities in some way or another, they are very knowledgable about what they are selling, too and are so helpful in finding what you need. Some of them will even special order things if you really want them that bad. Others, like the Dodson’s would tell me that they would check out things I asked for and didn’t carry. Like when I went there one day almost 20 years ago and inquired if they sold black seed oil supplements. Mr. Dodson said he had never heard of it but would check it out. He said they were coming out with so many new things that it was hard to keep up with them all. About a year later I noticed he was stocking black seed supplements in his store, he had read up on it and decided it was a good thing to sell. I had told him that I did online research on it and was looking for things to help someone who distrusted traditional medicine and she had severe psoriasis, wanted something natural. And it was very effective.
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
@cherokeepatti Sounds like a really good relationship. No wonder you're going to miss going there.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@FreddieUK I have missed several locally-owned businesses throughout the 55 years I have lived here.