I suppose the best place to have asked my question would have been on a Buddhist Forum. Then I would probably have got a few answers.....The Lotus Sutra, some obscure zen text, or some such. All well and good. In fact I've been as good as banned from a couple of Buddhist Forums (one an outright ban, the second more a "you're not welcome around here, so shove it) which is certainly not any demonstration of "loving-kindness", but then again, hypocrisy is not the preserve of Buddhists only......😀
Answering my own question, I have a lot of time for the Majjhima Nikaya, or "The Middle-Length Discourses of the Buddha". Once in days of yore it virtually became my "Bible". I was quoting from it all the time. But looking back it was one Sutta (Theravada =Sutta Mahayana = Suttra) that proved fundamental. Number 63.
It's the "who fired the arrow" sutta. A guy gets struck by an arrow and basically wants to know who fired it and all sorts of other questions, but the wise old Buddha comes along and says that the best idea is to pull the arrow out. This relates to a whole lot of other stuff in the various texts, about what is "declared" by the Buddha and what is not "declared". It seems many people want the "answer" before they begin - and really, most of us are like this. Maybe not a totally self-conscious answer, but a set of ideas and assumptions that have conditioned us, which we have been born into because we were born HERE, and not THERE, in THIS age and not THAT age. From such assumptions everything is judged, and perhaps fitted neatly into our preconceived ideas.
Jung (I like this name dropping) spoke of the "spirit of the times" and of the "spirit of the depths". He spoke in his numerous books of the latter. Anyone at all can speak of the former (like me.....) but Jung wrestled all his life with the Spirit of the Depths. Thinking about it (just now, as I tend to ramble and waffle as a therapeutic exercise) I tend to think a major problem is to think we have accessed one, when in fact we only have the other. Oh yes, I think so.
Anyway, pulling the arrow out (rather than all the various alternatives) is the realm of the Dharma - the Truth, Reality-as-is. Not a formula, not a creed, not a name (above all other names) etc etc etc. Referring to the Dharma, the Pali word is "ehipassiko" which translated means "come and see for oneself".
Another way of describing the Dharma is as per the verse found in the text I mentioned:-
“So this holy life......does not have gain, honour, and renown for its benefit, or the attainment of virtue for its benefit, or the attainment of concentration for its benefit, or knowledge and vision for its benefit. But it is this unshakeable deliverance of mind that is the goal of this holy life, its heartwood, and its end.”
The "heartwood". That's it. Who would not want "unshakeable deliverance of miind"?
Sadly, at least as I see it, many think that they have it already, or maybe will be given it after death.
Each to their own. Let's not be dogmatic!
That's enough. Sitting in McDonalds again, with a white coffee and now a vanilla milkshake.