Random
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

How cute little miracles happen?

For a very, very long time, the “obstetrical dilemma” was the go to explanation for why human birth is such a dramatic event compared to other mammals.

The idea is simple, walking upright forced our hips to stay narrow, while evolution kept inflating our brains. The result? Babies arrive with giant heads squeezed through tight birth canals. To fit, human infants have to do a fancy little pirouette inside the womb, rotating as they pass through. it’s one of the few mammalian events that almost always requires helpers and extra hands. Without someone to guide the process, the odds of complications rise significantly.

But it turns out the story is even wilder. Babies aren’t just “too big for the hips.” and they get spit out then ... Human moms actually hit a natural energy cieling late in pregnancy. Research measuring how much energy mothers can sustain shows that a woman’s metabolism tops out around the seventh to ninth month so babies have to come out before they could grow any bigger. That’s why newborns are vulnerable , tiny, squishy, and neurologically immature. Some babies weigh less than a kilogram per every week of brain growth still waiting to happen.

Essentially, evolution figured out a way to keep mom alive while letting her baby’s brain keep cooking, even if it means a delivery worthy of a horrifying suspense thriller.

And there’s more: humans almost always need helpers for other reasons. Across cultures, women give birth with midwives, family, or friends, and studies of traditional societies show unassisted births are far more dangerous than assisted ones. Both existed..Add in environmental factors: mothers with poor nutrition have narrower pelvises and smaller babies, while healthier diets can expand the birth canal and slightly shiifts the timing. And let’s not forget humans ' long childhoods and slow growth.. it is all evolution juggling mechanics, metabolism, social variables and brain growth much of which we are still learning about.
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
Boeing · 36-40
I have seen youtube videos and heard about birth stories that claim otherwise.
I would think it is not as much of our evolution deficiency as much of our lost connection with our body.
The videos I have seen, women give birth in squatting position or other positions and not laying on a bed like portrayed in ALL of the media everywhere.
Birthing is a process to be honoured and respected. Not the casual daily event, how hospitals approach it.
The woman needs to be connected to the process and have assistance only if necessary, and not the other way around that's made to be the norm.

I see this symptom in our societies @Miram, in more than one way.
For example, "freeing" our sexuality as portrayed by media, means totally losing connection with our bodies and the process of love making, that can take weeks if not months to mature. We are indoctrinated to discard everything and only focus on the "act" as if, penetrating each other's partners' psych is not a recognisable act. Of course it isn't... because our ways have lost the subtlety of truth of being.

Farming, the same. We poison the earth, disconnected completely from the soils, from the health cycles, forcing the cropses to "produce". Forcing the cows to breed, the chickens to lay eggs, the workers to work and work.
We've lost the dream. It's time we see it and reclaim it.

I have had the gift to hear about birth stories from women who were different, and treating their bodies in different ways and they agree that birth is a huge challenge and also that the body is equipped for it, despite the mind thinking otherwise. Find these women yourself and talk to them, read about their stories.

Mainstreaming is always telling us how we are weak and all the ways how we cannot. And we believe that and we experience that and we perpetuate their narrative. In any field. That's why I support those rare people who hold the knowledge wherever I find them.

I personally trust in the wisdom of nature. If nature finds our heads get bigger, our hips are going to get bigger too, they're all interconnected into a DNA, it's our knowledge and wisdom embodied within us. Nothing is operating as a singularity when it comes to nature. And yet all are one. I do not trust the research they're feeding us.

But I trust in you... 😌The foods you make, the kids you support, the love you carry. To lighten up a bit eheh. Phew ☺
Miram · 31-35, F
@Boeing

There is no such thing as an evolution deficiency.

Ahh, where to start..

I will start with what I agree with and then move to the disagreements.

What you’re saying about squatting, connection, and respecting birth is true.

A lot of hospitals and practices can make labor harder than it needs to be. And in a lot of contexts, abusive too and demeaning.

Women giving birth upright or with support do have smoother experiences, that's common knowledge, and yes, stress, fear, and lack of autonomy absolutely affect outcomes.

The body is capable of birth. Nobody’s denying that. That is not what my post is doing here.

And now here’s the thing with your comment in relation to my post, human birth is hard no matter how much squating you are doing or spiritual tunning .

Babies are big, hips are narrow, and the canal is tight, mechanically, evolution set us up for a risky process long before anyone invented beds or hospitals. Evolution is not some intentional systematic force that always get things sorted for our best advantage and makes life somehow easier..it doesn't work that way.

Also assisted bîrth isn’t a modern trend. it’s ancient. Across hunter gatherer societies and preindustrial cultures, women almost always had someone guiding the birth, they need helpers, helping with position, timing, and complications. And that is not exactly détachement from their bodies. It is alright to need assistance.

Even when conditions are perfect and the mother is healthy and “connected,” statistics show that unassisted birth carries real significant risks, still far riskier than for almost any other mammal.

That's what I am discussing here.

So yes, I agree reconnecting with our bodies, honoring the process, and improving support are amazing and necessary and need be done.

But it doesn’t change the evolved realities. Stories, squats, and rituals can make birth more empowering but they don’t rewrite anatomy, and no amount of “connection” magically makes it easier unfortunately.

I really wish women had better access to quality healthcare. In my profession, I’ve seen horrible outcomes when mothers give birth outside hospitals or without proper medical support..I am in Africa..cases like uncontrolled postpartum bleeding, severe infections, babies struggling to breathe at birth, or complications from undiagnosed preeclampsia...Without timely medical care, many of these cases lead to serious injury or even death for both mother and baby.

Capitalism, with its endless unethical practices and reckless professionals, certainly doesn’t help. The safer and smarter approach would be to fix the problems, not create more. And certainly not abandon science and its benefits.