the weeks surrounding father’s day always feel haunting [I Ghost]

@AllelujahHaptism thanks buddy

@ginnyfromtheblock this is actually kinda what i meant on your other post but, i dont want to upset either though :(

@AllelujahHaptism it’s ok buddy i’m dealing with it 😊

@ginnyfromtheblock still, im sorry
i wont bring it up

@AllelujahHaptism it’s already brought up so how’s your chance to ask lolol

@ginnyfromtheblock its just, im gonna be in that position soon...
i dont know how to prepare, you know? :(

@AllelujahHaptism i’m really sorry to hear that. my dad died in an accident so i didn’t really think about preparing. my advice is just to take time to heal (before and after) and don’t try to stifle your grief, talk to a therapist if you can and make sure your dad knows you love him 💖

@ginnyfromtheblock i havent been able to reach him since noverember -_-
& the people that reach him are fully self absorbed :/

@AllelujahHaptism i would personally do everything in my power to say goodbye, if that involved traveling and navigating around those in charge i would. if that’s not possible, just say goodbye in your mind. it can actually help

@ginnyfromtheblock ive been kinda trying & such
hes lasted about twice as long as the doctors estimated so i dont think theres much time left at all now :(