Are overweight, obese, hairy, tall women not women? Read desc pls

I am 5'8" tall, weigh about 190 pounds, wear a US women’s size 9 (UK 7), and I’m hairy (including around my anus, belly button, chin, and nipples, though I try to remove my hair). I have a large nose, thick eyebrows, sagging breasts, and masculine facial features.

I have never had a penis since birth and I have been menstruating since I was 11 years old.

I don't have a hormonal disorder like PCOS, because despite having numerous ultrasounds and blood tests, the results came back clear.

I felt the need to ask this question because someone on Instagram said, "I'd rather date a real woman than a whale"...