BeefySenpie · M
I chugged oil
I really hope that didn't happen for too long :|
More generally I think everyone wants to be what they're not. Skinny girls want to be curvier, thicker girls want to be petite. Skinny dudes want to be bigger (myself) and perhaps (not sure of this) chubbier guys want to be more lean
Obviously not true for everyone, but fits many I am sure
shockresistor · 41-45
@BeefySenpie Not long. I chugged oil for a few years on and off. Large amounts. I now wonder how my friends parents did not wonder. As an adult, I would notice. I studied nutrition since then, so I know how to gain weight in enjoyable ways that won't compromise my well being.
My body image,as well as overall self image, is unstable.
Yes. Wanting to be what one is not seems to be one of the most shared parts of the human experience.
I hope this is ok to ask, but what do you dislike about being a skinny dude? Do you want to gain muscle, fat,or anything to fill out?
My body image,as well as overall self image, is unstable.
Yes. Wanting to be what one is not seems to be one of the most shared parts of the human experience.
I hope this is ok to ask, but what do you dislike about being a skinny dude? Do you want to gain muscle, fat,or anything to fill out?
SoFine · 46-50, F
Why, still struggle. Your being at home-in-you, takes your 2 life tools.
A. Self-worth
B. Self-love
These 2 tools, when established, will anchor you -in you. Find ways to heal, to forgive those that did you wrong.
Let the past be that, The Past, is gone. To relive old hurts, hurts your body now, your body still thinks it is been abused 'now" when you mull over, write about old hurts. Move on.......today is new.
To be
To be you.
A. Self-worth
B. Self-love
These 2 tools, when established, will anchor you -in you. Find ways to heal, to forgive those that did you wrong.
Let the past be that, The Past, is gone. To relive old hurts, hurts your body now, your body still thinks it is been abused 'now" when you mull over, write about old hurts. Move on.......today is new.
To be
To be you.
shockresistor · 41-45
@SoFine Thank you!🐇 Oh! Indeed, the past is gone. I have forgiven so very long ago. I do appreciate the kind words. That is solid advice for whom it applies to.
To share is not to mull. I don't hurt for the girl I was . I believe that to share our stories is an act of love. We can all learn from one another.
To share is not to mull. I don't hurt for the girl I was . I believe that to share our stories is an act of love. We can all learn from one another.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
shockresistor · 41-45
@lovingdead You are very welcome. Thank you for reading and responding.xx
CathyUK · 56-60, F
Good advice.