still blows my mind that multiple people can call someone abusive and the response from others is still “well he’s always been nice to me” [I Am Ginger]

it’s almost as if people don’t treat everyone the same or something 🤔 almost like... you can use people’s perception of you to manipulate them 🤔 hmmmmmmm

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Elevatorpitches · F

Its like anti-solidarity

Good way to find out who really cares about you, regardless of their sunny attitude about the person in question, who may actually be a turd. Its not about them being "positive" necessarily, its often about what they think of YOU.

ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F

@Elevatorpitches exactly. it’s a real stand for nothing / fall for anything situation