still blows my mind that multiple people can call someone abusive and the response from others is still “well he’s always been nice to me” [I Am Ginger]

it’s almost as if people don’t treat everyone the same or something 🤔 almost like... you can use people’s perception of you to manipulate them 🤔 hmmmmmmm

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SW-User

It's prominent. I know I'm guilty of having friends that hate each other but I would never use that line.

I would listen and try to understand. If my friend is a repeat offender, then I have to make a hard decision to cut it off.

ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F

@SW-User very wise 💖
people aren’t expected to make judgments on people like it’s court but... if there’s a pattern, its probably not a coincidence