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I find dating as a BBW extremely hard. Mostly this is due to my own insecurities, however I find that the dating pool is limited. I especially hate it when you meet online because people have this image of a bbw and it is almost always someone in about average weight range, just a little chubby in all the right places. Does anyone else have this problem?

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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

Been there. End up between two groups. Those that fetishize the unhealthy weight and lifestyle. Or those that think the fat girl hates herself and if you say she’s pretty she’ll sleep with you. Neither is a good choice. It’s part of why I worked on my body.

Kellyfish · 26-30, F

I am currently doing the same! I really don’t want to be a fetish and I also don’t want to be a pity or anything of that matter. I’ve lost weight, gained it back, and now I’m starting again because I feel more confident when I do so. It’s just hard out here for a bbw lol! @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

@Kellyfish I wish you luck maintaining motivation and finding a person to love you for you