I Am Pansexual

My first boyfriend. I was unaware that he had lady parts, he didn’t tell me he was trans at first but I fell really hard for him, really really fast and when he finally told me he was a transgender, he thought it would ruin our relationship and tbh I didn’t know what to do or what to say (didn’t want to offend him in anyway) but I did kind of break up with him when he told me. I was MAD, very very angry that he’d keep this from me & I was falling hard for him. So, two days went by and I texted him to come over. He did & we talked & I realized that I fucking loved him for his heart & his beautiful soul...I didn’t really give a fuck what he had in his pants. That’s how I realized I was pansexual. Before then, I considered myself totally straight. Didn’t want to think about a vagina that way lol. But now the vagina doesn’t scare me one bit if I’m really seriously in love with somebody and if they make me really happy. Female, male, transgender, cross dresser, anybody, really. I fall in love with the heart and soul of the person. that’s truly so beautiful to me. 💕

CuckPaul1977 · 46-50, M

I'm glad it worked out for you.. its similar to how I realised I was bi, but my M2F girlfriend told me from the start that she was still transitioning.. that first time was so awkward though.. haha

beastmaster · 46-50, M

You have [c=#BF0000]explained[/c] exactly what [c=#BF0000][b]True Love[/b][/c] should be about falling inlove with someones Soul and Heart, not about their race and etc💖

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

To each their own. I'm personally not attracted to trans people, but I have nothing against them, either. Would I be friends with a trans person? Absolutely. In fact, I do have a trans friend here who recently transitioned from male to female. We talk quite a bit. But I'm not attracted to them. You can't control who you find attractive, ya know? That goes for everybody. We all can't help who we love. Love is love.