Muscles NSFW? Sad

@helenS if I sent them via DM would they be inappropriate? (Not naming the user)

@GoldenOldie That would depend on the chat. If you send them to someone without being asked, they might feel offended.

@helenS potentially if the chat was pre-excitingly risqué. Would sending these push it over the line? (Like if the offended party was referring to sex stuff. Would those pics be in line?)

Context: their message before I sent the two above (I had two face pics too) said:

“ I don't know enough about you to say if you're a catch or not”

— again I’m not naming the individual, I’m a decent person 😉

…but I took that an OK to send a few SFW pics of myself for their opinion…

@GoldenOldie If I were you I would not send any pictures without being asked before.

@helenS edited my comment above to elaborate. Keeping it classy and anon tho… to be decent 🥹

@GoldenOldie Well after that comment ("a catch or not") I think it was ok to send those rather tame pix.

@helenS exactly! They were fairly easy-going. Talking about mental health and sex stuff in detail. I was a bit insecure tbh… I mentionEd being a virgin and they were a bit judgmental; they said they had had lots of lovers (I don’t judge others) so I kinda wondered what their opinion of me was… and I saw “ I don't know enough about you to say if you're a catch or not” as a indirect prompt for me to send a few (tame) messages!

Honestly I’m saddened this person has turned 360 into a reactionary type of woman. She seemed encouraging of me to ask whatever I wanted in Q&A and then they jump on me…

…honestly; is that usual behaviour on SW? She herself has loads of nudes etc on their profile and talked a lot about wild-ass sexcapades and bedroom antics. I find the pearl-clutching a bit disturbing and disingenuous tbh… like they were “acting”

But; I’m keeping their ID anon. They said in a 😡 DM I named them. I’ve done no such thing—the only way people would identify them is by their own choice; *if* they chose to comment…

@helenS tame? Tysm! I’m grateful! I don’t get their reaction?? They seemed like a lovely, *decent* person—I even apologised to them

Then they called me a “R*p**t” 😟😟😟😟😟

@GoldenOldie Thank you for not disclosing that person's name. Private chats and the public layer of SW should always be kept strictly separated. 🌷

@GoldenOldie If that woman called you a criminal then you should stop communicating in any way.

@GoldenOldie What do you mean, "survivor"?