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I Have Lgbt Relationships

Okay here is the thing.I like so much a girl from my University.As a person she seems very girly but she is not very sociable and she is shy and she doesn't talk much.She only have a friend that she is hanging out with (In University) The thing is I can't get ANY information about her what she likes what kind of a person she is etc because she doesn't have any social media (like you don't get to know a person through Instagram but you can see what she likes,where she hangs out,If she is in a relationship etc) We talked once or twice in Uni (but only for things like our classes ) and we talked through Viber because I started a conversation and again we send notes to each other etc but she was very sweet and kind but she didn't talked much either.The thing is I don't know how to approach her. I know If she cared she would make a move but she prob doesn't have Idea that I like her. Also I want her SO MUCH to know that I like her because If she knew something could happen between us because she will think of me this way,or she would just reject me but she won't be annoyed and she would be nice,In the other hand what If she would be annoyed? What If I hurt her feelings and she feels awkward around me all the time? I don't want any of this to happen.Iam a person who always give advice like "If you like someone tell them otherwise you would never know what could happen also it's beautiful when you love someone to tell them" BUT If I was a boy I would.Or If I knew she likes girls I would.Or If I knew her better I would give a try even If she rejected me she wouldn't feel bad.But What I do now????
rckt148 · 61-69, M
Try just being a friend ,,then maybe if she maybe likes girls might come up
This is my main issue with the whole "gay" thing
Life revolves around more than sexual preference ,girls have always been friends with other girl and guys ,,,you complicate it with wanting more right out the gate ,and yes you could make things awkward if you do
just try being her friend
stella3196 · 26-30, F
@rckt148 Of course I want to be her friend and I don't want to make her feel bad or awkward. If she doesn't see girls this way is fine. The only thing that worries me is that MAYBE If she knew it she would come up easier because maybe she is very shy she thinks Iam just being friendly so she will never see me different. BUT I agree with you is better just to be friendly now..
Effloresce · 26-30, F
Just go up to her and ask if she wants to hang out. If she says yes, take it from there and work your way up to telling her how you feel
stella96 · 26-30, F
@Effloresce This was very helpful thank you ! The thing is we are hanging out with diferent people we don't talk much like ww are a lot of people in there and we have our "groups" of friends so it would be kind of complicated to ask her to hang out .She doesn't talk much either and it makes things more complicated.I wish she would hang out with me. Thank you:)
Effloresce · 26-30, F
Yeah that can be a difficult situation. But hey don’t give up! It sounds like you really like her, so I think it would be worth it to keep trying. Best of luck :)@stella96
stella3196 · 26-30, F
@Effloresce Thank you a lot :) !
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Just stay being you and friendly... Things will develope or not... There is no rush ..
stella3196 · 26-30, F
@ozgirl512 I hope so. :) I hope we'll have more chances to talk. Because I made a move twice If she doesn't make a move too to talk with me I don't know what else can I do. It's up to her I guess.. Thank you

 
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