Help.. I need to stop being in love with a straight girl. How to do it?

She's making me more confused with her mixed messages. I know she's confused. But I need to put a stop to this. My heart can't take it anymore. I love her too much and I also see her twice a week for class - I need to pretend she's just a friend. Damn it! This is the first time I fell for a straight girl. I was very careful before this. Why is this happening to me? I hate it!!!

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Bumbles · 56-60, M

I’m into straight chicks, too.

LamontCranston · M

Become a straight girl too.

HumanEarth · F

Dude, if you thought that was funny, thats just going to make people mad at you

Midlifemale · 61-69, M

Get a boyfriend...a normal relationship

Neoerectus · M

If not requited, it is a limerence.

Limerences are intense-one sided things that can be tough to shake. I liken them to inflated balloons.

I have simply just told a couple people. It doesnt go well, BUT it does pop the balloon so one can think clearly again.

If lucky, the other person MIGHT understand and help you deflate it slowly, but most are too shocked to do so, frankly.

I consider limerences a pain in the tush.
Despite the fallout, I just pop them for sanity's sake.

GoFish ·

unrequited love is best left alone..

HumanEarth · F

She may not be sending mixed messages, she might just see you as a friend. If you want to stop feeling this, focus on distance for yourself. Just limit the 1 on 1 time and keep things clearly friend like.

No more sign searching, only accept her intentions once she’s clearly consistent. Thwn you will know 100% which way to go. Friend or Lover

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