I was in bed with a new lover and he told me he isn’t gay. We’d just finished a hot and sweaty session and he was playing with my butthole but I understood what he was saying
I think most of the men I have been with don't regard themselves as gay. And I think they are right, they aren't attracted to men, only to people who are feminine in some way.
@ninalanyon I think the guys who like femme guys and trans are in self denial. I find trans and femme guys attractive and women too. I consider myself bi leaning towards gay now and don't find all men or women attractive. I guess I am selective and enjoyed a relationship with a nice guy and now enjoy feeling a nice guy inside me.
@Ozdharma My point was that I think that there is a distinction between attraction to masculine gay men and attraction to femininity. I'm quite confident that the majority of men I have been with are not interested in masculinity and hence do not regard themselves as gay.