I Have Gay Friends

His feelings were hurt today because someone called him gay but used it with a mean spirited way ... because she was angry

I tried to make him realize that when people are hurt they vent and all hell breaks loose and people say mean things out of anger
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We’re kind because that’s who we are not because of the way people treat us
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I don’t want him to be angry
But he’s hurt...yes
And he is kind
And he happens to be innocent
Now he needs to be patient too

When the time is right, she will realize what an idiot she was to say that

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xixgun · M

Ever notice that it's only hate speech if it's true?

Ever since the advent of speech, people fighting will talk shit about each other.

Tell your friend to accept that not every single insult is actually about him.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@xixgun I did, and he understands that concept. It just hurts when anger is directed at you, and it’s not your fault, and you’re not allowed to defend yourself ... properly.

xixgun · M

@Mindful Welcome to adulthood

Mindful · 56-60, F

@xixgun it does suck sometimes

xixgun · M

@Mindful More often than not

Mindful · 56-60, F

Awwww...are you familiar with Buddhist thought?@xixgun

xixgun · M

@Mindful Shit happens then you die?

Mindful · 56-60, F

😄 haha there’s two ways to look at everything!@xixgun

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Mindful honestly having a brain fart —but there’s something in Buddhism about if you expect great things you will always be disappointed. If you expect nothing there’s no disappointment. (Kinda depressing when I say it, it sounded peaceful from Buddhist)

xixgun · M

@Mindful Expect nothing and you'll never be disappointed

Mindful · 56-60, F

@xixgun yes. That’s how many practice