I Enjoy Domination And Submission
For those who want to condemn The Dom/sub relationship refered to as Daddy/babygirl (little).
You should know it does not have anything to do with incest or minors.
A few years ago I was asked what I think a Daddy in a Daddy/babygirl (little) relationship is so here it is more or less as I have what is called dysgraphia (it is an issue with getting thoughts into written words) I am going to rephrase something I read once into something closer to my own thoughts
It is important to understand the power of words. And to choose them carefully.
Daddies should never underestimate the power of a hug. And give them often and hold them as well. Actions speak louder than words.
It is important to give babygirl’s (little’s) freedom, but also know when to take charge.
I believe that Daddy/babygirl (little) is a nurturing relationship. As I am Daddy will tell you basically what I think my role is you then can tell me what you think your role is.
That said to me a Daddy is his babygirl’s (little’s) number one fan, I tend to believe in my baby (little) more than she herself does. I find that I will use the wisdom of my age and life experience to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become.
I tend to as well see things long term.
His eyes light up when his baby (little) enters the room. He is always proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, I believe that if you do not attempt you can never succeed and part of that is praise for who you are. A Daddy knows she is not really perfect and he will accept her for who she is, flaws and all. And he will know all her flaws because he will expect that he will become your ultimate confidant, allowing you to bare your soul to him beyond all others. You're going to have many different relationships and types of friends in your life. But as Daddy, he will be your “umbrella confidant”. The one with whom you can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what you tell Daddy stays with him. Daddy is the one from whom she will withhold nothing. How else can Daddy properly encourage and support his babygirl he will be the one that who doesn’t mind if you need to call and talk at 3 am about anything or nothing at all, just because you miss him or need someone to talk to about anything. Or yes you just can’t sleep.
Daddy will be you protector against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. A Daddy understands that sometimes she may just need to curl up in his arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes a Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. If so pity the person who messes with her. As Daddy will go as far as necessary to protect you from all.
Daddy will be her teacher as well as mentor showing you new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy enjoys taking his babygirl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. It makes Daddy happy when he can look into his babygirl’s (little)’s eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for them. Experiencing pleasure in non-traditional ways and places.
A Daddy wants to be her guide and adviser. As she continues to make her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer his little’s questions, calm her fears, help make the insecurities go away, and give you sound advice based on my years of experience.
He wants to be your anchor. He/will be unyielding, unmovable anchor in any storm. No matter what happens in her life, she will know that Daddy will be right there where he has been and always want to be. So she knows she can hold onto that even if she’s blinded by tears. Daddy knows the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but a babygirl needs something to hold onto that will not move.
Daddy will be his girls disciplinarian. When she acts badly, she can expect to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. At times he may find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows but as a good Daddy, he will. Even though Daddy would love nothing more than to spoil his girl, but Daddy realizes this is the path to ruin. Once she begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she would no longer see him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. As little’s need the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, A Daddy must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships.
A Daddy know there are things you may want your Daddy to do like
Brush your hair
Watch the same movie many times in a row because it’s your favorite
Read you bedtime stories
Check for monsters under the bed and in the closet
Wipe away tears
Kiss your boo-boos and where it hurts even after spankingReach things that are too high
Know the names of all of her stuffies and which ones are most important
Know your favorite toys
Know when to bend the rules
Make a game out of doing chores
Tuck her in for bed
Hold her hand to cross the street
Reward good behavior
Punish her when it’s needed
Encourage, uplift, and support her however she needs
Ease her fears
Love her quirks
Help her reach her goals
Snuggle the crap out of her
And last, but most importantly, Daddy's keep their promises, always.
I believe that Daddies have things they must always do like.
In times of trouble, Daddy will never leave the role behind, and will always there to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
A Daddy must always show her he understands that she is deserving of guidance tutoring and attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that she can trust his direction.
A Daddy needs to prove to their baby (little) that he is someone they can lean on, and depend on.
A Daddy is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear their submissive’s wants and needs. Even though Daddy makes the decision based on what is fair in her best interest and just for both.
A Daddy is patient, taking time to learn the limits of his baby (little); and knowing that as their trust of them grows, so will they.
A Daddy understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to them.
A Daddy with discussion comes up jointly with rules and punishments but is alone required to enforce them.
These are not totally my words but I have adjusted them to fit as much as possible my thoughts it is better understood when read in conjunction with rules I have to start that can and should be adjusted some to fit your needs.
Now a good Daddy will adjust these types of things for his little as needed. does this help?
You should know it does not have anything to do with incest or minors.
A few years ago I was asked what I think a Daddy in a Daddy/babygirl (little) relationship is so here it is more or less as I have what is called dysgraphia (it is an issue with getting thoughts into written words) I am going to rephrase something I read once into something closer to my own thoughts
It is important to understand the power of words. And to choose them carefully.
Daddies should never underestimate the power of a hug. And give them often and hold them as well. Actions speak louder than words.
It is important to give babygirl’s (little’s) freedom, but also know when to take charge.
I believe that Daddy/babygirl (little) is a nurturing relationship. As I am Daddy will tell you basically what I think my role is you then can tell me what you think your role is.
That said to me a Daddy is his babygirl’s (little’s) number one fan, I tend to believe in my baby (little) more than she herself does. I find that I will use the wisdom of my age and life experience to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become.
I tend to as well see things long term.
His eyes light up when his baby (little) enters the room. He is always proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, I believe that if you do not attempt you can never succeed and part of that is praise for who you are. A Daddy knows she is not really perfect and he will accept her for who she is, flaws and all. And he will know all her flaws because he will expect that he will become your ultimate confidant, allowing you to bare your soul to him beyond all others. You're going to have many different relationships and types of friends in your life. But as Daddy, he will be your “umbrella confidant”. The one with whom you can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what you tell Daddy stays with him. Daddy is the one from whom she will withhold nothing. How else can Daddy properly encourage and support his babygirl he will be the one that who doesn’t mind if you need to call and talk at 3 am about anything or nothing at all, just because you miss him or need someone to talk to about anything. Or yes you just can’t sleep.
Daddy will be you protector against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. A Daddy understands that sometimes she may just need to curl up in his arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes a Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. If so pity the person who messes with her. As Daddy will go as far as necessary to protect you from all.
Daddy will be her teacher as well as mentor showing you new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy enjoys taking his babygirl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. It makes Daddy happy when he can look into his babygirl’s (little)’s eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for them. Experiencing pleasure in non-traditional ways and places.
A Daddy wants to be her guide and adviser. As she continues to make her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer his little’s questions, calm her fears, help make the insecurities go away, and give you sound advice based on my years of experience.
He wants to be your anchor. He/will be unyielding, unmovable anchor in any storm. No matter what happens in her life, she will know that Daddy will be right there where he has been and always want to be. So she knows she can hold onto that even if she’s blinded by tears. Daddy knows the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but a babygirl needs something to hold onto that will not move.
Daddy will be his girls disciplinarian. When she acts badly, she can expect to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. At times he may find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows but as a good Daddy, he will. Even though Daddy would love nothing more than to spoil his girl, but Daddy realizes this is the path to ruin. Once she begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she would no longer see him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. As little’s need the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, A Daddy must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships.
A Daddy know there are things you may want your Daddy to do like
Brush your hair
Watch the same movie many times in a row because it’s your favorite
Read you bedtime stories
Check for monsters under the bed and in the closet
Wipe away tears
Kiss your boo-boos and where it hurts even after spankingReach things that are too high
Know the names of all of her stuffies and which ones are most important
Know your favorite toys
Know when to bend the rules
Make a game out of doing chores
Tuck her in for bed
Hold her hand to cross the street
Reward good behavior
Punish her when it’s needed
Encourage, uplift, and support her however she needs
Ease her fears
Love her quirks
Help her reach her goals
Snuggle the crap out of her
And last, but most importantly, Daddy's keep their promises, always.
I believe that Daddies have things they must always do like.
In times of trouble, Daddy will never leave the role behind, and will always there to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
A Daddy must always show her he understands that she is deserving of guidance tutoring and attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that she can trust his direction.
A Daddy needs to prove to their baby (little) that he is someone they can lean on, and depend on.
A Daddy is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear their submissive’s wants and needs. Even though Daddy makes the decision based on what is fair in her best interest and just for both.
A Daddy is patient, taking time to learn the limits of his baby (little); and knowing that as their trust of them grows, so will they.
A Daddy understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to them.
A Daddy with discussion comes up jointly with rules and punishments but is alone required to enforce them.
These are not totally my words but I have adjusted them to fit as much as possible my thoughts it is better understood when read in conjunction with rules I have to start that can and should be adjusted some to fit your needs.
Now a good Daddy will adjust these types of things for his little as needed. does this help?
