Sub or Domme, what's your personal preference?

Think I started in this community around 30 ish years ago so 23 ish. I started as a sub and thankfully had some beautiful experiences. My Dom's treated me well, we had contracts and the love/respect was wonderful. It taught me patience, compassion, self love amongst many other things. I decided to leave that scene as it wasn't making me happy anymore. I became more "vanilla" for a while but one day was chatting on Facebook with a lovely man and he started chatting about how he liked to be dominated. I said I know how that feels as I too liked it at one time. He asked if I'd ever dominated anyone and I hadn't as I didn't think I would like it. To cut a long story short we decided to play with the idea of me being his domme. It was difficult at first as it was out of my comfort zone but after a little while I found my flow!!!

Since then I've worked with some lovely submissive gentleman and definitely prefer that roll.
I am no longer active in the scene but recently re connected with a sub on here from years ago and it's wonderful. It feels very loving still and he's still a very "good boy" 😉