Nature of relationships vs people's sex kink

To me, dominance and submission isn't a sex game, it's just the way I relate romantically to a woman

I'm more towards playful and affectionate than forceful, but I'm quite physically strong and don't do the yelling thing, so when the usual is all sweetness and cuddles and the now is firm but warm, it usually works out

It's not about sex, it's about fulfilling the roles we were designed for and how to deal with a lot of modern women when they step out of their place

A man should be attentive to a woman's needs and communicate and listen well, because if things are done right he's making all the final decisions unchallenged, which means if he's wise he'll gain as much useful input from her as she has to offer, which same as a man varies greatly from woman to woman