Submission- control that is not by Force or manipulation
“As a submissive, she looks for a Dominant. That’s submission 101. However it’s not Domination she chases. She looks for something more intense, more cerebral, more nuanced. She wants, craves and needs to be subjugated, not Dominated. What does that mean? She wants to be entirely conquered. Way beyond the physical control that we see in modernised BDSM based porn productions or Hollywood DomCom™️ movies like 50 Shades of Red Flags and Failures.
To subjugate another goes way beyond the simplicity of Domination. To subjugate is to control and conquer. To enact controls that aren’t overbearing and toxic, but actually allow her to discover the strength that exists in her vulnerability. Controls that allow her to feel safe and secure enough to cede her submission and truly let go, knowing she is unconditionally accepted, and will be supported, even when mistakes occur, or self doubt creeps in. Much more than that, however that’s the baseline of what those who feel genuinely innate submission, not just want, but truly crave.
Control her. Not by physical force. Anyone can manhandle. Anyone can wrestlefuck. Anyone can pull hair, grip a throat, rail and roughhouse. However the control of a submissive takes an entirely different level of control to successfully conquer her. That control begins with the psychological. The use of so many nuanced aspects which include your own vulnerability, your strength, your intelligence, your charisma, your seductive ways. The list goes on, and on, and on.
There is no defined recipe or technique that can be taught, for the ability to subjugate another either exists in someone, or it doesn’t. It is innate within someone that is naturally Dominant. However one thing is certain. A submissive wants to be subjugated, she wants to be mind fucked before the flesh touches flesh. Before skin on skin occurs.
She wants to know that you can dance with her mentally and fuck her mind. To draw her into your world where she pictures what is to come, just from the way you treat her, talk to her, paint the visuals by manipulating her mind and thought processes. That feeling of the butterflies she gets and the way her cunt comes alive, knowing instinctively that she is conquered, even before it occurs.
She doesn’t want a knuckle dragger that beats the chest like King Kong. She wants to be controlled in the most breathtaking of ways. A gesture, a look, a motion. The subtle, yet powerful ways to subjugate.
Fuck her mind and her body will become yours. Willingly. Without question. Without doubt.
That’s what Domination is all about. Subjugation of her entirety. Her mind, body, spirit and soul…”
-AussiePrimal - Fetlife
To subjugate another goes way beyond the simplicity of Domination. To subjugate is to control and conquer. To enact controls that aren’t overbearing and toxic, but actually allow her to discover the strength that exists in her vulnerability. Controls that allow her to feel safe and secure enough to cede her submission and truly let go, knowing she is unconditionally accepted, and will be supported, even when mistakes occur, or self doubt creeps in. Much more than that, however that’s the baseline of what those who feel genuinely innate submission, not just want, but truly crave.
Control her. Not by physical force. Anyone can manhandle. Anyone can wrestlefuck. Anyone can pull hair, grip a throat, rail and roughhouse. However the control of a submissive takes an entirely different level of control to successfully conquer her. That control begins with the psychological. The use of so many nuanced aspects which include your own vulnerability, your strength, your intelligence, your charisma, your seductive ways. The list goes on, and on, and on.
There is no defined recipe or technique that can be taught, for the ability to subjugate another either exists in someone, or it doesn’t. It is innate within someone that is naturally Dominant. However one thing is certain. A submissive wants to be subjugated, she wants to be mind fucked before the flesh touches flesh. Before skin on skin occurs.
She wants to know that you can dance with her mentally and fuck her mind. To draw her into your world where she pictures what is to come, just from the way you treat her, talk to her, paint the visuals by manipulating her mind and thought processes. That feeling of the butterflies she gets and the way her cunt comes alive, knowing instinctively that she is conquered, even before it occurs.
She doesn’t want a knuckle dragger that beats the chest like King Kong. She wants to be controlled in the most breathtaking of ways. A gesture, a look, a motion. The subtle, yet powerful ways to subjugate.
Fuck her mind and her body will become yours. Willingly. Without question. Without doubt.
That’s what Domination is all about. Subjugation of her entirety. Her mind, body, spirit and soul…”
-AussiePrimal - Fetlife
36-40, F
