Least attractive people are usually the mean stuck up ppl

I can’t stand when I go outside and the people that always see me just stare at me . They don’t say anything but they usually have a glare or it’s hard to tell the emotion I usually look away. I’m pretty attractive like really attractive but I don’t toot my horn. I have had this issue with friends iv encountered where I looked nice and they would compliment me but it looked like it killed them to say it. If they had brother forget about it.. they would tell me. Thier brother was interested but they would say I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend as if I actually said it lol .. I never understood it.. I kind of took it as envy or that they just protected their brother but more on the envy side because they personally knew me. This is why I cut off a lot of friends and I am watching who I aquatint myself with because it’s always the least attractive people who really despise you but want to be your friend so bad to see what your all about and then critize you and compare themselfs quietly it’s really disgusting because I don’t come off like conceited but I think I will just a little bit because I’m tired of coming across people who try to intimidate me because they really hate themselfs and as some of you can probably tell I’m really nice and can easily be taken advantaged of because of my kindness.

plungesponge · 41-45, M Best Comment

gotta be honest, I agree. I used to follow the philosophy "Don't judge a book by its cover" and I still try to do that but so often the unattractive people, especially those unattractive because of traits within their control like excessive weight or bad hygiene are kinda just shitty. Maybe because they sense that don't get the same treatment as attractive people so their personality has grown twisted and bitter, so often I find being "nice" just makes them think they can take their grievances out on you

Helfreclb · 31-35, F

@plungesponge this!!! Iv gotten backlash on this post but you are spot on. I don’t ever judge a book by it cover, I’m usually friends with everyone and I won’t judge them until I see them being ugly . When they should not even be acting like that because it’s a negative negative .. even the attractive people can be asses , I don’t even bother

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Lmao I can relate.

My former friend, her brother was so hot on me and she did everything to keep us apart but then she found us in bed and I went "What? We are two adults who chose this, it's none of your business what we decide to do with whom"

and she crossed her arms and wanted to say something snarky back at me but she realized that she's the immature one if she must control who him or me sleeps with so she said "OK ok you're right. I shouldn't care"

Then I said. "Good. Now can you please leave the room so we can put on our clothes?"

And that's when she understood how weird it was of her to storm in just because she wanted to catch us having sex like "Aha!!! I knew it!!"

Take it from someone who's been having jealousy eyes on me my whole life. Those insecure girls will do anything they can to make you feel less good about yourself because you are their competition (ridiculous I know but that's how they see it) so just walk proud girl.