I Am Bisexual

My current female love interest is acting weird. I need help. She's talking about being afraid to fall too fast and wanting to pullback, but she doesn't want to hurt me. I've told her I was without expectation and that I would respect whatever her needs were. She then said she wanted me to herself, but she didn't want to keep me from better people out there. HELP. What do I do. We're gonna talk about it more in person in . couple of days.

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Effloresce · 26-30, F

Sounds like she doesn’t have very high self esteem, and is struggling with wanting to be with you and simultaneously not wanting to be too pushy or too fast with things. I think you’ll be able to work things out once you talk in person, as long as you both are clear with what you want out of your relationship