Am I Asexual? [I Am Asexual]

Since my childhood and I never had any thoughts about the vanilla sex, I was into the feet of women and some thoughts about keeping them as pets, I was still kid maybe 10.
Later when I was 13 some of my friends make me watch porn and I found it disgusting.
At age 18 I discovered the BDSM and the petplay and the petplay and the role of owner fit me so much but still no sex.
I am in a vanilla marriage, at sex times I don't focus on the sex but I imagine that I have girls on leashes and making them real pets to be turned on, so after all of that am I asexual then because I don't find the sex sexy?

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BlueVeins · 22-25

No, you're definitely not asexual; if that was the case, you wouldn't find [i]anything[/i] sexy. You're just a really kinky foot fetishist who's trapped in a vanilla marriage. My advice is, tell your wife about all these kinks you have if possible; maybe she'll be into at least one of them. You shouldn't have to live a dull sex life that you don't enjoy, you deserve more than that. 💗

Owner91 · 31-35, M

@BlueVeins trying to introduce her to it, thanks for your nice words.

BlueVeins · 22-25

@Owner91 I wish you the absolute best, I know it can be difficult. 💝 I hope she absolutely adores it. 🥰

Owner91 · 31-35, M

@BlueVeins thanks 🤗💖