Do you prefer polyamory or monogamy? And just because you prefer one does that mean you don't believe in the other? And why?

I’m a realist so I know the basic human desire to expand the race, and had a phase where I leaned on the poly side. But it was honestly such a mess for all those involved. The emotional pain endured by all three of us completely made me shut that switch off forever.

And the older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve let my romantic side yearn for “the one” and to be the only one for them. There’s so much comfort and peace within that level of true connection.