Why are people so so obsessed with fitness and health when looking for a partner

People seem totally fixated on it. For me I’d rather have a big unfit unhealthy girl that a small fit heathy one.
There’s more to life than diet and gyms.

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Nihiless

We all have our preferences - you have yours. Not everyone keeps fit because they're looking for a partner - it's a life choice too. Therefore, we meet others with similar interests/lifestyles.

Willomk1 · 46-50, M

Totally see that but some seem to think we must all choose the same thing@Nihiless