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For You Young Ladies, When You Are Out In Public & A Man Hits on You Telling You…

That you must have fallen from heaven because you are an angel. If you don’t like him you can reply “I think you fell from heaven, too, and landed on your head. “ 😜
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graphite · 61-69, M
Men are increasingly not approaching women anymore. Don't want to be rejected, humiliated, shamed, maybe even arrested. Called a "perv" or a "creep" for what used to be normal romantic pursuit. Work and college, for example, are simply off limits.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@graphite work always was and remains inappropriate. College should be fine.
@graphite posts like this are why, but I have decided to just risk being arrested or humiliated because using dating apps is the same as just staying in your living room and never meeting anyone at all for guys that aren't perfect

I make six figures, am 6 ft tall, 2 cars, and a house and nobody gives a shit

its probably my personality, Im pretty intolerable

that or I am a little overweight I guess
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graphite · 61-69, M
@orioninthenight Dating apps: Average-looking woman signs up and gets 100 inquiries from interested guys in the first 3 hours. Average-looking man signs up and gets 2 inquiries from bots in the first month. One study of these dating apps showed women find 80% of men below average in attractiveness. Yes, 80% are below average. These could be great guys, great providers, but they're not even given a chance.
@graphite yea I think everyone already knows this at this point
graphite · 61-69, M
@orioninthenight Look for men to abandon these datings apps in droves if they haven't already. There's already reports of these speed-dating events where no men show up because they're tired of the reflexive rejection.
@graphite actually I have to be honest here, some women are interested, I mean just the other night I was at a strip club (because I was lonely (my normal self)) and explaining this to some girls there and they were like "we all will be your wife" but then I remembered what dating a stripper means and noped the hell out of that

so maybe it isn't entirely honest for me to say NOBODY is interested

I guess I am no different than women really, I wont take a chance anymore with a woman from the streets because I already did that shit when I was younger and found out
@graphite What's the solution then? Men aren't entitled to dates 🙄
graphite · 61-69, M
@orioninthenight If you're over 6' feet tall, you already meet what many women are reported to consider the minimum height requirement. 85% of men don't meet this requirement. They'll just have to get taller!
@graphite I'm in my 30s and 5'10-5'11 and I'm married.
graphite · 61-69, M
@BritishFailedAesthetic Go to places like churches, place like that, maybe. There's another trend happening: Passport bros - where men go to places like the Phillippines or Thailand to meet women after too much rejection from western women.
@BritishFailedAesthetic solution in my view is to just go ahead and steel yourself up for humiliation and abuse from women in person I think

just go for it lol

no risk no reward, creep them out 😉
@orioninthenight There we go! Go for it. @graphite Again, men aren't entitled to dates.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@graphite it would help if they said something original and not just a line
@BritishFailedAesthetic remind them that the world is a scary place for women after dark...."hey sweetheart, you know you shouldn't be out here all alone like this...."

😍😍😍😍😉😉😉😉😉

jk
graphite · 61-69, M
@BritishFailedAesthetic Fabulous! But there are surveys finding 65% of women paired up these days but only 35% of men. Translation: Either women are dating each other or sharing the same "hot" guys, with no commitment from them.
@graphite And? That's society.
@cherokeepatti "are you from tennessee cause you are the only 10 I see"

[gunfingers]
@cherokeepatti see this is why Im single lol
@graphite It all comes down to this- there is no solution as men aren't entitled to dates.
graphite · 61-69, M
@BritishFailedAesthetic So if they're getting rejected, rejected, rejected by western women, they should just accept their fate and not pursue more-accommodating women around the globe? https://katya-koval.medium.com/young-american-men-are-going-overseas-to-find-wives-67584e1377cc
@graphite So what should women do- be forced to go on dates they don't want to go on?
graphite · 61-69, M
@BritishFailedAesthetic Forced? Your words, not mine.
@graphite Ok- so how do we fix this "problem" in your mind?
graphite · 61-69, M
@BritishFailedAesthetic Its fixing itself. A lot of men are simply taking themselves out of the dating market, having seen their own fathers, brothers, etc ruined in family courts and not wanting the same fate. And, as I noted, there's passport bros and other options for dating besides dating apps and nightclubs: church groups, similar interest groups (ranging from ski clubs to etc etc etc).